Saturday, October 27, 2012

Austin, again!

I have been going places since I started working/ learnt driving and so I thought I could combine my weeklong Dallas training with a weekend Austin trip. Last year, we had been to Mt Bonnell, and I fell in love with one of the winding + hilly roads there, and it was one of my driving goals to drive on that road. My colleagues have scared me with anecdotes of fast and furious Texas drivers. I wasnt sure if I could brave it on my own, so asked my friend Aswin, whose driving experience runs length and breadth of the US, and his roomy to accompany me.

Aswin had warned that the I-95 (the highway, not the immigration document) would be busy, so we were to start early. By the time we reached Austin, and picked up my UF friend Kapil, it was late enough to have no good restaurants open. But Kapil has contacts (:P), and he literally  cajoled the maharashtrian cuisine restaurant owner. Its mind blowing to find a Maharashtrain restaurant in the US, and I had bhareet + bhakri (in India I used to dislike bhakris, its amazing how 2 yrs away from India changes you). I was worried about how spicy its going to be, as I told Aswin - my community eats less spicy food, and other people are known for the amount of spices they add! Aswin asked me to announce my surname on arrival and then the waiter should intuitively know how (un)spicy the food ought to be. Sure enough, the bhareet was so spicy that I had to ask for yogurt to calm my inflammed tastebuds. Nevertheless, Austin suddenly shot up in my list of favourite cities by simply having a Maharashtrian restaurant.

Now that I am in Florida, Aswin claims that I had no choice but adapt my choice to age 60+ men. Our night at 6th street hence involved me pointing awesome gals to Aswin, and Aswin pointing aged guys to me. My gang dared me to ask out a 60+ guitarist, he dint know English, and kept saying "yayayayaya".. which then became the mantra for our Austin trip.

Next day, we revisited the capitol. Last time, Aswin and I had chanced upon a portrait named "unknown judge". This time we decided to simply seek out the unknown judge, take a pic with him, and then explore the capitol lawns which we had skipped last year. Unfortunately, neither recalled where the judge was, and we ended reading the names of all the portraits in the capitol. Earlier, Kapil had pointed out the restaurant called "mirabeau" in his office and we had passed by the Lamar street. I was pretty excited to see the portrait of a guy called Mirabeau Lamar.This time around, I noticed a lot many paintings or floor-markings which had completely skipped our attention last year. I wonder if thats how it is if one returns to any place!

We were joined at the scenic Oasis hotel by another friend, who was with us in our last trip. We next went jet skiing. This time around I was much better than my previous attempt. But the showstopper was undoubtedly Aswin. Aswin shot around at 47 mph with me riding pillion and the jet ski literally bouncing off the waves. Ride of my life, followed by an amazing sunset at Mt Bonnell. We couldnt find the road near Mt Bonnell that had enchanted me last year..Austin I will be back - to taste the maharashtrian food, to look for my favourite drive, and to catch a closer glimpse of the lit UT Austin tower.

My day in heels

For as long as I can remember, I was taller than average. My KG memories of finding my 1st school best friend are that we both were tallest kiddos and hence back-bench-partners. My parents raised me to be mature enough to dress what is comfortable for me, and not dress to impress the other sex. I never wore heels except for a platform that I had bought in school, and a platform which my parents accidently bought for me.. and I kept tripping off those platforms too however supposedly stable platforms are over heels.

I wore flats for 2 high profile events..my UF graduation and a ballet at UF. But dressing for my office party is a different ball game. For starters, its in Dallas, where everyone takes dress code seriously even at office. I spent some tense days deciding what is a dress code for "office" "party". Formal evening wear in US is a long evening dress, and since it is longer-than-ankle length, its typically worn with heels so that the dress is not muddied. (Seriously Eww, Indians are so practical, sarees are worn just off ankle so that we never needed any high heels.)

When in doubt, ask Dana. Dana said its not just any formal party. Its formal "office" party, and so dress is out of question. It should be either skirt-suit or a suit. Since I somehow associate skirt-suit with airhostesses, suit it was. But still its a party not an interview, and I could wear dressy/ strappy heels so as to not be too formal.  I have always wanted silver tie ups, but those go with cocktail dresses, so my strappy heels definition was still tends to formal heels. Thankfully most US stores have an online catalogue, and I chose my not-so-high heels pretty quickly. I decided to break into them and walk around a bit lest I trip in front of people/ or worse if I sprain my ankle and cant drive back home!!
 
Observation 1: The shoe itself looks pretty because of the aesthically enhanced shape thanks to the pencil heels.
Observation 2: Frankly, the heels add nothing to the looks of the wearer..except for the height, which to me makes no difference.
Observation 3: Since the heels are so thin, the wearer has to walk weirdly, unstable if you ask me.
Observation 4: Spine aches when you are wearing the heels, pelvic girdle and shin aches like crazy after you call it a day.

Conclusion: To all the ladies out there, if you cant embrace the way God made you, go ahead, i cant stop you from wearing heels. All I ask is to please use your consumer power to force heel-makers to put some knowledge about mechanics + anatomy in making heels. Afterall, God/ Nature is the best mechanical engineer out there and surely if he made our feet in a way that we should support our weight on front + back of our foot, there really must be something to it which is crucial, though beyond the comprehension of our beauty-seeking brains.
I wore flats to my office party. And my colleagues cared more about our conversation over the dinner than what the only 3 females at the party were wearing. 
To all the dress code enforcers out there.. keep your enforcements to yourself.